An interesting weekend... two dates, about 10 pounds of meat-based products while in the company of Wendy & Fran courtesy of Fran's "the Master of Barbeque" dad, a viewing of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind and now I'm contemplating more travel in the month of May than I've done in the past couple of years. I'm already going to New York for a week in the middle of the month, one of my close friends who lives in Spokane wants me to come up to her place for Memorial Day weekend, and my old college a cappella group is having their 10-year reunion concert in Boston and they've invited all the alumni to come. I was discussing dating with some friends today, and the females among the group were amazed to find that us guys were shy to the point where we tend not to make the first move. Is this a general tendency for guys, or are we just the aberration?